How to Host a Virtual White Elephant
Updated October 17, 2026
Remote teams can have just as much fun with a gift swap; it just needs a little more planning. Here's a timeline that works. For the game rules themselves, see virtual White Elephant rules.
Timeline
| 3 weeks before | Pick a date and a price limit ($20–$30), and decide on gift logistics (below). |
| 2 weeks before | Everyone buys a gift and sends the host a photo (or ships it to the host). |
| Party day | Share your screen with the turn order in TV mode and paste the link in chat. Reveal gifts as people choose them. |
| Week after | Gifts ship to their winners. |
Three ways to handle gifts
- Ship to winners: everyone buys online, waits for the game, then ships to the winner's address. This is the cheapest option, with no double shipping.
- Host has everything: gifts ship to the host, who unwraps them on camera. This makes the best show, but the host does the most work.
- Digital gifts: e-gift cards or subscriptions revealed on screen. This is the easiest option for global teams.
Keep it moving
- Use 45-second turns and a 2-steal limit.
- Keep a shared slide with each opened gift and its current owner.
- Finish with a 3-minute final steal round using the timer.
Need gift ideas that ship well? Try the coworker gift list.
FAQ
How do you do a White Elephant on Zoom?
Collect gift photos, then on a video call let players choose numbered gifts in a random turn order and steal opened ones. After the game, the gifts ship to their winners.
More guides & tools
How many gifts per person?One gift per player, plus the edge cases→White Elephant vs Yankee Swap vs Secret SantaWhich gift exchange to choose→Steal rules explainedFreezes, chains and arguments settled→White Elephant with kidsFamily party tips that avoid tears→White Elephant Dice GameOnline dice, timer and TV mode→Rules GeneratorPrintable house rules in 10 seconds→Gift Ideas94 curated ideas by budget and theme→